Simple Steps to Elevate Your Life

Sometimes others can say things more eloquently than we can; why recreate the wheel if you don’t have to? On that note, I wanted to share this newsletter on elevating your life from Ali Brown. These tips seem so simple but can have a huge impact. If you’re like me and feeling overwhelmed and unsure where to start, the ideas below are a great jumping off point. Enjoy!

“5 Simple Steps to Elevate Your Life” by Ali Brown

I know what it’s like to think that the lifestyle you want is out of reach. Just over 12 years ago, I would lie on my bed in my tiny 400-square-foot studio apartment and flip through magazines, wishing I could have the luxurious lifestyles I read about.

Despite that negative, nagging voice in my head that reminded me I could barely afford rent, I’m now living a beautiful life I created for myself from scratch. Instead of moping around an apartment I can barely afford, I now have the means to travel and to inspire others.

How’d I do it? By deciding not to settle for being average and thinking BIG.

Changing your mindset can be a challenge, but the rewards are well worth the cost. Here’s how you can get started…

    1. Eliminate negativity. This includes negative self-talk, too. Why would the universe bring you a better life if you don’t appreciate what you already have? Show gratitude for everything in your life now. Those seemingly bad days happen for a reason, so whenever you find yourself thinking, “I can’t do this” or “that’s impossible,” reframe it as the opposite. “I can do that, that is possible…” You owe it to yourself to give yourself the love and support you need to succeed.

    2. Document your dreams. I wanted to manifest a new house, so I listed all of the qualities in my dream home: a 3-car garage, workout room, walk-in closets… (Don’t censor yourself! Anything is possible, even if it seems silly now.) I also bought some real estate magazines, cut out pictures of homes I love, and created a collage. I’m constantly updating my “dream board,” which is now proudly displayed in my dream house.
    3. Surround yourself ONLY with supportive people. I only shared my house dream with friends and family I knew would support my decision. (NOT those prone to phrases like “Are you crazy? Who do you think you are? Ms. Trump?”) Your true friends and family will be happy to share in your dream. If you don’t have anyone else to support you, then it’s time to make new friends—join a local networking group or a mastermind.

    4. Decide, believe, and watch for clues. It’s not enough to make a decision to work towards your dreams. You must also truly believe in them! Don’t worry about HOW your dreams will manifest themselves. Watch for clues, and the HOW will find you, perhaps in the form of a new business partner or a new client. But remember that the dream comes before the HOW.

    5. ACT on opportunities when they appear. Action involves risk. You might have to hire more people to help with a new client. You’ll need time to research that prospective business partner. Or figure out how to hire that amazing new mentor. But it’s up to YOU to take action when the path is revealed. The universe is supporting you, and each step will bring you closer to your dreams.

Question: What mindset strategies have helped YOU Elevate your life? Please share your insights in the comment section below.

© 2013 Ali International, LLC
“Entrepreneur mentor Ali Brown teaches women around the world how to start and grow a profitable business that make a positive impact. Get her FREE CD “Top 10 Secrets for Entrepreneurial Women” at www.AliBrown.com

Give Your Heart a Break

Do you ever feel like just cocooning? Like just staying in your house, in your pjs, and in your own mind? A feeling that’s so introspective, you need to close yourself off from the outside world? It’s not a depression, it’s more of a nurturing, soul-searching type of feeling. Maybe you’ve noticed, as I’ve been an absentee blogger, with a little more fun and fluff and a little less sharing and analyzing than usual. Or that I’ve been invisible on Twitter and Facebook.

I’ve been feeling this lately, and the problem is…well, life. There’s people and fur babies who depend on me to care for them, work that seems to span longer and longer past 9-5 every day, blogs to write, B-school to attend, and on and on. As much as I’d like to, there’s no skipping out on those things.

Then there’s the other things, the visits with friends, traveling, fun weekend trips, bowling, wineries, reading, and the other leisurely things that are far too easy to skip out on, but are hard to explain to the friends and family that feel like they’re being cut out.

It’s not a depressed, stay in bed type of feeling, it’s more of a restorative period. It’s happened to me before, and it’s been very hard for me to explain or understand, so I was thrilled when I found the below on the Daily Love by Ashley Turner. It made me understand that it’s not just me moping or being anti-social, but something that everyone goes through.

Ali Brown also talks about it, and how it usually happens when you’re up-leveling, but I haven’t always noticed that connection. In all fairness, I may not be giving myself the credit deserved.

What about you all? Have you experienced it? Is it a certain time or season that triggers it for you? How do you allow yourself to just take time when you get to this place?

For those of you interested, you can learn more about Ashley about her at her website, linked to above,
or on her Facebook page.

Tips for Turning Your Passion into Profits from Entrepreneur Mentor Ali Brown

Lately, I’ve been listening to The $100 Startup and bombarded with emails for Marie Forleo’s B-School, so of course, my mind has turned to the more entrepreneurial side of things. Many of you may find yourselves in the same boat, in a slower than desired economy and with a shift from the masculine to feminine in 2012. I’ve also started watching my Shine Conference DVDs for inspiration, so with that in mind, I wanted to share this article from Ali Brown with you today.

“8 Ways to Turn Your Passion into Profits” by Ali Brown

As an entrepreneur, one of your most important duties is keeping your mind open to fresh moneymaking ideas.

Holding regular brainstorm sessions can uncover fresh spins on our original ideas, and keep the passion alive—not only within ourselves, but for our customers and clients as well.

But, if you want to have an eye-opening brainstorm session, it helps to be aware of the scope of ALL your possibilities, especially when it comes to new business ideas. Otherwise it’s easy to fall into a one-track mindset. For example, an aspiring business owner might say, “I really like fashion, so I’m going to be a fashion designer.”

A successful landscape architect might say, “All right, time to shake things up, let’s start pursuing higher-end clients.” Although there is nothing wrong with the ideas above, you can see that the ideas are limited, and one-to-one. The truth is, your ONE passion or skill can actually spur a variety of moneymaking business ideas.

Let’s take a look at 8 different ways you can make money from ONE interest or passion.

First, let’s assume that you are an aspiring business owner brainstorming your very first business idea. In order to decide on a business idea that you’ll be passionate about, you’ll FIRST need to identify your interests, hobbies, and natural abilities.

Have you always had a way with words, or are you always the go-to gal for planning parties and events? Do you love fashion, cooking, caring for animals? Make a list of keywords that highlight your interests, and don’t censor yourself here. Anything is possible!

Once you have a list of keywords, you can now start brainstorming a variety of ways to monetize each passion.

Let’s say, for instance, you’ve put down fashion and gardening as two things you’re extremely interested in… Let’s take a look at 8 different ways you could turn each of these passions into a moneymaking business…

1. Just Do It – Many business owners often jump right into this one-to-one, “Do-It-Yourself” (aka DIY) business model. This is what we were talking about above, where someone who likes fashion thinks, “I’ll be a fashion designer, and design my own clothes.” Someone who wrote gardening might think, “I’ll be a professional gardener, or landscape architect.” Again, nothing wrong with these ideas, but there are other ways to tap into your passions, and it’s often the easiest way to start.

2. Sell It – Develop products that you could sell that relate directly, or indirectly, to your passion. For the fashion example, you could open a brick and mortar boutique or an online business, where you sell other designers’ clothing. Or, for the gardening example, you could open a floral shop, or a nursery that sells trees or outdoor fountains or specialty tools and supplies, or you could open a produce stand at your local farmers market.

3. Talk About It – Here’s where you leverage your passion or knowledge on the topic by getting paid to share information on it. A blog is a great example. Just think of all the fashionistas-turned-bloggers online who earn a living by offering their perspectives on the latest fashion trends or tips for the budget conscious shopper. Their back-end income is made from ads and affiliate commissions. Many experts out there built their status on certain topics by writing books and articles, creating courses and programs, filming television shows, documentaries, etc. on a topic they felt passionate about. As a gardener, you could teach a class on sustainable gardening or write an ebook on secrets to the garden of your dreams.

4. Offer Advice on It – As a coach or consultant, you can bring your expertise directly to a client by working with them one-on-one. The distinguishing factor here is that you are offering a customized solution for a particular client or situation. For fashion, this could be working as a stylist, or style consultant. As a gardening aficionado, one could offer their gardening expertise for model homes, wedding halls, or private estates.

5. Invest In It – When you take an investor/owner role, you are putting your resources towards a venture or property relating to your passion, with the hopes of making a profit on it. If you have an interest in fashion, you could help fund a budding fashion designer’s fall collection, in return for a percentage of profits. Or, you could rent out a warehouse space for a sample sale, or a runway fashion show. In the gardening industry you might sell or offer a lot of land in exchange for a percentage of produce sold.

6. Make Technology for It – A clever way to find your niche is to think of something that would improve the industry. Is there some machinery, or technology you could create that would make life easier for those in fashion or gardening? A database to help track orders for plants, a drawing application for designers, for example? And don’t forget about the budding online and mobile application industry. You could create an app to help people plan their daily outfit, design their dream gardens, and more.

7. Build a Community/Event Around It – Here, you’re thinking of ways to rally live people around your passion. As a fashion lover, you could host a fashion show, inviting budding fashion students to showcase their talent, or organize trunk shows or in-home accessory parties, where women could buy and sell vintage pieces. As a gardener, you could start a community organization that beautifies impoverished neighborhoods, teach workshops on flower arranging, etc. The idea is to offer access to a community (offline or online) where people share the same passion as you, charging them on a per-head or per-class basis, depending on the format you decide on.

8. Maintain It – Many people make a living by offering services that help preserve or maintain what they’re passionate about. For the fashion lover this could be a laundering service, or a tailor/alteration shop. For a market full of avid gardeners, creating a new formula for plant food could be quite the success story, or a service caring for plants while people are on vacation.

Well, that’s eight to get you started… There are nearly endless possibilities, but I hope these got your creativity brewing! Let me know if this helps you see things from a few different perspectives.

QUESTION: Have you had success turning your passion into profits? I’d love to hear from you! Please share your insights in the comment section below.

© 2013 Ali International, LLC

“Entrepreneur mentor Ali Brown teaches women around the world how to start and grow a profitable business that make a positive impact. Get her FREE CD “Top 10 Secrets for Entrepreneurial Women” at www.AliBrown.com

Why Your Circle Matters and How to Build It

This edition of MarieTV reminded me of something I first heard from Ali Brown a few years back, which was a quote along the lines of “you are the combination of the five people closest to you”.

That freaked me the hell out, because while I loved my friends and family dearly, my train was headed for the stops of self-discovery, spirituality, personal growth, and pursuing my passions, while many of theirs seemed to be headed to babyville, corporate america or self-pity land.

That was judgmental of me, and it certainly didn’t mean I needed to ditch those I loved and who loved me because we didn’t have all the same interests. What I found to be more true was that I needed to add people to my circle, people who were interested in those things and who would grow with me.

I was pleasantly surprised to find that some friends were more aligned than I thought. One or two casual acquaintances became closer friends as we discovered similar interests that had just never been brought up before. I went to therapy and indulged in that one hour a week to talk about nothing but me and hired coaches to guide me through my journey and keep me accountable and focused. I made blog friends that I connected with on Facebook or through email, and in some ways became as close to them as the people I physically saw everyday. I signed up for conferences, telecourses and teleseminars to stay positive.

I’m sharing this because there may be many of you who feel like you’re in this same position. Maybe you’re interested in meditation and your friends think it’s a joke. Maybe you want to learn to be more confident, but to your co-workers that means investing in a new “it” bag. Maybe, like me, you’ve been transplanted to a place that feels totally foreign to you and don’t have the support system you once did. Know that you are not alone.

First, you’re always welcome here :-) , and I truly mean that, not just as a reader, but always feel free to engage in dialogue in the comments or even to reach out to me by email. I don’t care if you’ve been reading from day one or if this is the first post you’ve ever read from me.

If budget is a concern, visit websites and sign up for newsletters for people who inspire you. For me, it’s people like Marie Forleo, Gabrielle Bernstein, Danielle Laporte, Mastin Kipp, Katie Humphrey, Ali Brown or Tara Marino. For others, it’s Kris Carr, Suzanne Evans, Patricia Moreno, Kimberly Wilson or Doreen Rainey. Once you find a few, chances are they’ll lead you to others who are similar.

Follow them on Twitter, Facebook and Pinterest. It’s another great way to discover new people to inspire you and to stay surrounded with positive media rather than the latest violence somewhere in the country.

If they offer a free webinar or teleseminar, take it. If you get a recording of it, save it – you never know when you’ll want to come back to it later.

Podcasts are another great resource. Start by searching for those you already interact with, and browse by categories or interests. It can make the commute to work a lot more productive or your fitness time more enjoyable, and again, many are free.

Join Meetup.com. I know it sounds like a dating site, but I promise it’s not. It’s just a place to find groups of people in your area with similar interests. I’ve found everything from meditation to yoga to weight loss to couples date nights. Some groups have very nominal dues every quarter or semi-annually, but most are free and many of the events are affordable too.

Read. Listen to an audio book (a membership to Audible.com is about 2 coffees at Starbucks a month) or keep a library of e-books on your iPad (or tablet of choice). Right now, Audible is running a special offer – get your first 3 months for just $7.49 per month. If you have a Kindle and Amazon Prime memberships, you can get many books for free. And I may be the only one, but I still love to visit our public library!

If you can afford it, attend conferences in person. Do a Google search or keep an eye on the pages of those you follow and your local papers and you’ll be amazed at what is available. The event itself can be incredibly inspiring (I started this blog after attending my first conference) and you’ll meet people you can keep in touch with to keep that momentum going after the event.

Then there’s the simple things, like taking a class, joining a networking group, or volunteering for a charity in your community.

Everyone needs a tribe, and that tribe will likely be made up from a wide variety of sources and types of people. We’re fortunate that we have the technology to connect us to people all over the world and resources beyond our imagination to create a virtual tribe.

When You Can’t Meet Your Goal of Setting Goals

I’ve shared my struggles openly with getting organized and motivated for 2013 both here on in conversation with others on my Facebook page, and it is something that has really been a thorn in my side. It’s something that’s very important to me, something that I believe strongly in, and something that I want to do.  If you were a reader this time last year, you know I was all over it by this point!

 

Tick...Tock...Goals

I’ve sat down with a pen and notebook, an iPad app, colored markers and a stack of blank white paper, and each time have come up blank. yet knowing that I need a guidance of some sort I have felt like a lost traveler without a GPS or map. After all, if we don’t know where we want to go how will we get there?

Long ago I shifted from the idea of resolutions, and more recently find myself shifting from goal to intention. But something’s missing, and I don’t know how to fix it. I’ve got to-do lists half scribbled on paper in 18 different directions and half on Google tasks. I’ve got the same planner in 2 different sizes, 1 completely untouched. Piles of half-finished projects hide notebooks I planned to use to make lists and my iPhone I planned to use to set reminders. I’ve never felt so behind, unorganized, scatterbrained…what was I saying?

I signed up for Optimal Living 101: How to Set Goals That Actually Make You Happy :-)  - maybe that was my problem, that I just couldn’t figure out what would make me happy, which I had at least decided was my ultimate intention for 2013. I just started listening to the courses. The wisdom was there, the action steps were there, but I still felt stuck. I stumbled on Mastin Kipp of the Daily Loves course on Actualizing Your Souls Goals for 2013. Really inspiring, dead on, and still stuck.

I began to think about the definition of insanity – doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome. I realized maybe my approach was the problem. I thought about what had led me to move from terminology like resolutions to intentions. I remembered all the talk surrounding the shift from the masculine to the feminine in 2012. I realized all of the experts I was turning to were men, and were working from the masculine state, even as I was focusing on the feminine in other ways.

Some of the interesting ideas I’ve found are below for you to check out:

Elegant Femme article on The Importance of Planning and How Most Women Get it Wrong

Elegant Planning

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this theory, and I’ll be sure to share my progress!